Meet Madame Papi:
As you can see from this picture, Madame Papi is one of the most joyful people I know. This lady is always beaming. Madame Papi is 27 and she has two children, Ki-Ki who is 4 and Adriana who is 6. She treasures those two. When she looks at her children it is with the greatest love and joy. You can she tell she dreamed of being a momma since she was little. Not only does she adore her children, but everyone else’s as well. She’s a nurturer.
Magdala is a Haitian lady who is the program director for the mission, she also overseas a lot with the nutrition program. Every year she appoints one of the moms to be “head mom” which means their responsibilities include things such as cleaning the area for the program and doing Bible study with the other moms. Its a huge honor and Madame Papi was the head mom last year. She never complains and always goes about her work in a joy-filled manor.
This lady continuously puts others first. The day I visited their house it had just rained a pretty good amount and somehow I managed to step right in a huge pile of mud so my feet and shoes were covered. It was nasty, but I knew I could clean my feet once I got back to the mission. When we got to Madame Papi’s house first of all she always greets me like she hasn’t seem me in years. She has a way of making you feel so special. Once she saw my feet were covered in mud she offered to clean them off for me. I said no thank you, but then she disappeared and returned with a bowl full of water. I knew I just needed to surrender, because whether I wanted her to or not she was going to clean my feet. I was sitting on their back steps which were pretty low to the ground. She bends down on her knees in a completely uncomfortable position, takes my shoe off, and starts scrubbing the mud off of them. When I say scrub I mean she got every last trace of mud off those flip-flops, some of which probably had been caked in there from other walks. Those flips-flops looked brand new. Not only did she scrub my flip-flops, but she washed my feet. You heard me right. She washed my feet…my DIRTY, MUD-COVERED, NASTY feet. I’ve had ladies wash my feet before here in Haiti and it was one of the most humbling experiences for me and they were even clean that time.
Yes, she is my friend, BUT that’s not why she did it. She would’ve done the same for you. That’s who she is. She doesn’t think she just does. She lovingly serves others.
Ki-Ki is Madame Papi’s youngest and my buddy. The first year I taught the pre-school Ki-Ki was too young to come, however this kid craved to be in school. Multiple times a week he would come running across the court yard with the other kids to school only to be taken back to the nutrition program. We would let him stay some Fridays since he wanted to come so badly. Madame Papi would always laugh and say how he cried to go to school. So when he finally got to come last year he LOVED it. He was the best student, he wanted to learn and he wanted to be there. He would sing his little heart out and give his all at everything he was handed…just like his momma. He graduated last June and now goes to school across the street at the mission school, but every time I see him he comes running with his big smile. Madame Papi reminds me whenever I see her that he misses “Miss Ashley” and the pre-school.
The second time we went to Ki-Ki’s house some of Madame Papi’s family had just had a baby. Ki-Ki kept telling us there was a baby and it was his. Watching Ki-Ki with that baby was the sweetest thing. He just looked at it so lovingly…he does have a lot of his momma in him.
Adriana is turned a lot like Madame Papi as well. They both have the same ear-to-ear smile that they are always wearing and they both have the sweetest way about them.
Madame Papi’s “husband”, I’m not positive whether or not they’re married, does live with them. He does construction at the mission whenever they have a job for him.
I’m so thankful for Madame Papi and her precious family, they make me feel so loved.
I’m also thankful for the way God uses Madame Papi to remind me to be joyful in all things, because joy is different then happiness…joy comes from the Lord and doesn’t change with circumstances.
I’m thankful for the way God uses her to humble me and to show me what it looks like to live your life putting others ahead of yourself and serving them out of love.